I was thinking about the Oingo Boingo song “Private Life”.
This is an old song it’s older than me from 1982. Back before people would be using the internet.
I interpret it as this song is about a person who may or may not be Danny. This person had friends, but they somehow disappointed them so they lived a private life. Now they are lonely and insane. The lyrics are contradictory. He lives his private life but wants to get out. I think the danger he describes is interacting with other people.
I feel that way with the hobbyists. I went back to my private life. Those people are notorious over sharers. But I’m going to stay where I am right now.