Don’t you hate when people try to be motivational, but just end up insulting you or a group you are in? You know when somebody tells you something like “Back when I lived on the mean streets of (some city). I had to hustle and I was lucky some lady took me in. Then I was lucky enough to get a job at the car manufacturing plant. And save money to go to college. Because my parents never went and none of my 17 siblings went to college. And you go around failing math tests you’re disgusting! I can’t even look at you! You are going to grow up to be a hobo! Who lives off discarded cat food. Who has no shoes and gets one hot meal out of the year on Thanksgiving from the mission.”

Or something like this for jobs “(my name) you are not listening to me! Finding a job is so easy! You just go anywhere an apply. Domino’s is hiring! Or be like my little sister who made an ice cream truck out of an old van. She made a lot of money doing that when she didn’t have a job. Why can’t you do that?”

Or those bitchy “sales people” you know the ones I’m talking about. The fake it till you make it anti vaxxers with the bad hair. It’s thinly veiled motivation/insults. “I know what is it like being a struggling mom. 😭 Mother of 4 my babies all under 5.👶👶👶👶 Can’t take any jobs because of child care issues.💔 Living off food stamps. 💸 Nor being able to afford a cup of Starbucks. ☕️ Until I found my tribe selling (name of product). Join me and 5 million other women living the dream of positivity support me and my dream or GET OUT OF MY LIFE! I don’t need negative people like you. Success is what you put into it. Now I can spend all day with my babies while I work on my phone from anywhere. Support small business!”